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How You Can Add Some Spice To Your Love or Marriage Relationship

Enduring love relationships or marriages need some attention and TLC on a consistent basis so they can stay flourishing, healthy, and alive. If you think marriages and long term relationships can keep going if you don't feed them, you are sadly mistaken. In order to keep love from dying, you have to give the time to developing that love, in the way it fits into your relationship.

Invigorating your marriage or intimate relationship starts with establishing a connection between you, and you can do that in various ways. It takes commitment and devotion to creating this type of connection of the heart and an openness to permit the past stay just that, the past. It requires being truly honest about what you're feeling, and can also mean starting at square one in making love with each other. To invigorate passion and love, it might help to do things that both of you used to have fun doing as a couple but don't do anymore. It might mean trying something brand new as a couple that could help you establish that feeling of togetherness that you felt before.

Intimacy in enduring love relationships and marriages doesn't have to deteriorate. There are some really easy things you as a couple can do now to invigorate romance and love that was once between you. One great way is to set aside some time to talk about what both of you need to have more of in your love or marriage relationship. The challenge here is to stay candid and honest without pointing an overcritical finger at your partner or spouse. Would you like for your partner to show you more affection? If so, what does affection mean to you? Do you want to have dinner together once a week? Would you simply like to go out without the kids each week?

One part of enduring intimate relationships and marriages that sometimes vanishes a bit after many years together is attraction physically. So many couples feel as though their love making grows ordinary and unexciting. They also could notice they are so busy with jobs, other responsibilities or children that they simply do not have the extra energy or time for a lot of closeness with one another. These couples allow their physical relationship to be pushed to the back burner and let other activities to get in the way of really being with each other.

Creating deeper love and more spice in your love relationship or marriage can be done, and a lot simpler than you may think. Make a decision now that you need and want a more rewarding relationship. Start today to let more love and passion into your relationship and see how it begins to change and get better. Begin now to create what you want for your life.